im actually so sick and tired of the problems i have with my boyfriend. All he seems to do is blame me for everything but i honestly cant see what i have been doing wrong. Then he just chooses to ignore me instead of actually telling me what i have done wrong. We havent seen eachother in 3 weeks because he is always ‘busy’, but hopefully i should be seeing him this weekend but im really doubting that. I really don’t know what i should do? Any suggestions?
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Is your boyfriend a self-obsessed manchild who falls in love with his own reflection each time he looks in the mirror? Does he blame you for things that are blatantly his fault or that you have utterly no control over i.e the weather or global warming? Is he that much of a shortsighted douche bag that he cannot see the beauty of a woman who stands faithfully at his side, through unnecessary strife and complete bullshit?
If you answered “Yes” to any of the above questions, please feel free to rid yourself of him and find a “man” who will adore you for the woman that you are.
Seriously, the next fella I see disrespecting his woman is gonna get floored. Does no guy honestly know how to sustain a relationship? What’s the world come to…
@rprp98 I’ve dealt with similar situations to an extent still am. Sometimes its hard for a person to see their own mistakes. Maybe he doesn’t see anything wrong with what hes doing because your actions don’t tell him. I know easier said than done, but maybe you need to let him know that if thats how hes going to be with you then you can’t be with him. And stand firmly about that decision hopefully he will realize that hes wrong and stop doing those things after seeing how serious you are about it. But then again what do I know, thats just an idea of maybe what you can try? I hope that things work out for you!!
If you still care about him, tell him. If he gets upset give him time to cooldown (after you tell him things). Last relationship i was in i could have changed everything wrong that i didnt see i was doing (or most of it at least, didn’t see things right due to several circumstances and my own fault) if i would have just been told in a straight, honest and calm way, maybe even a letter or email would help. At times women asume we men see things you do or say, but we don’t, since we have a lot of genre differences, so understanding and communicating is the key there. If you threaten him tho, he might just walk out the door. And return later being sorry and asking for forgiveness (if he really cares about you deep down) when you already don’t care, lol.
you should leave him – guys like this have deeper issues and it will go on for a long time. you deserve someone that will pay attention to you and love you. trust me, women make excuses for guys they love and in the end, you might end up like me – i lost everything – and will lose my life.
Your boyfriend sounds like a lumbering dolt, imo… no offense. From what you’ve written, I’m pretty sure you could find someone who would treat you better than he does, and pretty easily at that.
@fox: thanks for telling the other side of the coin, you are right as well, and you made me understand something else about my situation, lol… i might even have to pay you for all the things you have made me realize later haha
@keief – you know what you can pay me with.
And i know what you are getting at (about yourself) so stop it 😛
@fox: k, i’ll pay you with an alien massage session, if i can get an available appointment (wonder if they charge you for the travel down here as well).
@keief – am mad at you now – i don’t want that. But i know YOU will love one. Wait til you fall asleep tonight. Ha.