Hello. Idk where to start. I’ll make it short. So,long story short. I have extreme social anxiety/phobia. The worst thing is I get so sweaty whenever a girl passes by lol. I haven’t talked to a female until today more than just few seconds. I believe this is the only thing keeping me behind in everything because I don’t usually get anxiety attacks when I’m out around males.
So, I was thinking to get a female genuine true friend online who might’ve social anxiety or whatever it would be,whether depression or something else, So we could help each other in a two way street. Give & Take,genuinely.
I know that I’m good looking,very socialable,humorous,ect ect but these things never come out because of social anxiety. There was a girl I like but I can’t just fucking say hi to her knowing the fact she stares at me most of the time. I laugh at myself looking at my past how many girls I can’t really count I have lost due to this fucking shyness disease. If it wasn’t for this phobia I’d have had tons of girlfriends until now in my real life.
I really need a female friend so I can get comfortable with females.
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Honesty, online is so much more different than in person. You get to see reactions and movement to analyze your next move. Online it’s more of a guessing game. And more robotic feeling.
I know, But I don’t even have anyone in real. What should I do?
Friends are friends, online or not. It’s just the ones in person have a few more benefits. I have an online best friend. We FaceTime everyday. Don’t quite know what I would do without her. She’s my rock. Always backing me up when my boyfriend decides to side against me! Lol. They’re great. But not having them around sucks. It’s limited and robotic. I just wouldn’t practice your communication skills on them. It’s not the same.
I do agree with Darien on this one. I’m a female and suffer from severe social anxiety as well. I am able to talk to people, including males, online. Yet, it has not helped me with talking with them in real life. Perhaps it’s because I refuse to video chat, maybe that would’ve helped more, but I don’t have the required equipment so….
Anyways, I think your best bet is to start small. I use to have a hard time talking with any men, but when I obtained a male psychiatrist I was able to practice with him. If maybe you could obtain a female therapist then work your way up to finding a friend and then a romantic relationship.
If you would like to be friends, that would be great. I’m just unsure of how much I’ll be able to help you. :/