Not kidding. Don’t hold back on what comes to mind when you see these pics:
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I was born with a female body, but I’m not a girl and nor do I desire to be a boy! I do not relate, feel or want to be either male or female. Human doesn’t feel right to me either. I’m some freak of nature, a transgender alien… that is what suits me, feels right when I say it.
Why should I live? Who wants a freak like me? How do I find or reach out to people when I’m trapped and limited? No one wants to give me the time a day. I don’t even do or say anything. People are just mean to me, for no reason. My own family would do and say things and their reason was “just because” or they were bored? I’ve got something where I attract the worst of humanity, even online… I want to die, but I don’t. I truly just want to be accepted for the freak I am and be loved, live a simple life and make my excruciating pain worth suffering for the one person who will love me! I want a girl friend… I want a true love…is that too hard to ask for?
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As far your looks are concerned you look perfectly OK, not sure what your gender issue is. You look a boy, do you wanna be a girl? As far “true love” is concerned it doesn’t exist we all do ‘business’with each other for our whole life that’s reality
You’re average-looking, nothing unusual. In fact your oval/round-ish facial features give you the advantage of being either a girl or guy-so dress in whatever gender you prefer to be in-you’ll get away with it, unlike people who look too masculine or feminine.
I’m a guy who’d like to be a girl-I think I look slightly more masculine, but when I’ve done some cross-dressing, I think I could probably pull it off and be passable as a girl. I have nice legs/arms and eyes. However I need to trim down to the weight of a woman my height, my build is more male right now.
Oh and regarding looks/dating…since you were born a female, you should go to a lesbian club and check out the butch-dykes there…they look exactly like fat male truck-drivers and gangsters and you should see the gorgeous girls they manage to pick up. It really is a mystery to me what pretty girls see in them-but it throws the idea of having to be ‘beautiful’ out the window-in some cases.
That shouldn’t be a mystery if you think about it. They are a mixture between rugged male and female, so it’s natural that females that are more femenine-looking-according-to-society-standards end up with them. As for the OP… i actually don’t see an ugly freak there, she’s good looking to me (and with cute eyes too). It’s true that with long hair she would look like a girl and with short hair like a boy, but i’ve met several people like that and they have no problem attracting whatever sex they wanted to.
Thanks for the advice. I live in a small town, trying to figure out where the LGBT people hang out… I’m about to write on my shirt “I’m an LGBT, want to go out with me.” lol
not bad lookin at all. u got that androgynous swag goin on huh
I think you may be best described as “agender”… I can understand a little as I am borne into a male body and neither desire to be referred to being a man (or be referred to any male gender reference)… I don’t like being referred to being female either. Gender neutral… not fitting either side of the gender coin. I get it. I won’t take pictures but I have been described as fairly masculine looking…I look into the mirror and the person looking back at me is very different than who I feel. I
I won’t say I get 100%… I get a little.
Looks-wise, you look average… you’re not ugly. But I understand where you’re coming from as I too feel ugly.
I thought agender meant you had no sexual desires or interest? Maybe the term has multiple meanings.
To be honest, I don’t hugely care how I look. I’m not like a girl who is obsessed by her appearance or worried how others preserve. I feel ‘ugly’ in the sense I’m plain and the only way I’ll feel something is if I had a partner. It’s like when you look at an object and don’t know how to describe it, yet if you put it in front of a background or next to another object suddenly it looks like something. This is how I feel. I’m missing something in my life in order to look right, feel right, be right…
no thats asexual
Asexual is one who lacks sexual desires. đ
You don’t look bad, you kind of look like a librarian. I think you’d look good with a mustache. Maybe like a 70’s era cop mustache, ya know?
What? I don’t want a mustache, I hate hair. I have a phobia of it actually. I wish I could shave my head, I’ve shaved off everywhere else đ
Sorry. Scratch that idea then. I just think you’d look tough with a mustache. Like a scary librarian. đ
lol. cop mustache and some assless chaps riding on a harley full speed taking it too far? or not far enough? that is the question of the day.
I actually look better with sunglasses. I don’t know why. It hides away my eyes! They say the eyes are the windows to the soul, if you can’t look at them you won’t see all the pain, sadness, darkness, depression… you just see an image. I should just permanently wear sunglasses, then maybe I’ll have friends, they won’t have to face who and what I am, my problems that have always pushed people away…
corey hart anyone? sunglasses at night is my fuckn jam yo
In your second picture you look kind of like LÊa Seydoux in Blue is the Warmest Colour (a film about a lesbian romance). Just need to dye your hair blue.
I’ll just go to the store and pick up some dye then đ
you’ll look like sonic the hedgehog then!
There is nothing ugly about you
You are not ugly but I can see pain and sadness in your eyes on the second photo. You just lack self-esteem and confidence. Just be who you are its easier to be a lesbian or with a girl than finding a male partner who loves you for who you are inside. I’m a lesbian because guys have never wanted to know me for who I truly am. Girls genuinely care and talk about all the emotional stuff men tend to not want to talk about. I’m a feminine looking lesbian and my mate is pretty butch she’s the man like the opposite of myself. I like it though because she’s like a man and a woman all rolled into one, so I figure I have the best of both worlds! đ anyway don’t be afraid hun, there is so much people out there who don’t judge based on gender and appearance its all in your attitude and the way you carry yourself. X
I can’t tell you how appreciative I am of your words! I was hoping a girl/lesbian would comment on my post! I could care less what guys think of me, but am very curious if other women find me attractive or cute đ Thanks for taking the time, you’ve given me hope. And I kind of agree with that best of both worlds stuff, although mine comes with an alien bonus, he he đ
I don’t think you’re ugly, in fact you’re fairly in the upper average level. Wait, so are you male or female?
My suggestion is to change that hairstyle, it looks kinda outdated. And you have a very serious look on your face! Try not to furrow your eyebrows too much, relax it and give a hint of a smile! Otherwise, you look perfectly okay, there’s nothing wrong about you.
As wndozh8r said in someone else post, there is this thing called Natural selection where humans will pick on people who are ‘different’, ‘weak’ etc.
Society is crap. You don’t deserve to be treated badly by everyone. I guess i could say people are too caught up in shit or in themselves to have a scrap of empathy, hey, i wasn’t born like that, so its not my problem, they think. Well, what if they were? What if they had these conditions you had? Would they like to be treated badly? Don’t think so.
It would be nice if people did not judge and attack people for being ‘different’. Its meant to be a civilized society, but i feel we are really just cavepeople with very primitive instincts like ‘natural selection’. You see animals in the wild doing the sane thing.
As a civilized society, i would hope that people would be past that… I guess not. Nobody asked to be born. Nobody asked to be born and end up with certain conditions/illnesses.
PS. You are not ugly, and really people are so shallow for judging others on looks. If people would look past that…
That’s how I’ve always felt, we’re just the same as we were thousands or millions of years ago. No matter how much time goes by humans resort to those stupid qualities. I was talking to someone from here about how everyone labels and categorizes every human being. Once we stop labeling I think humans might finally learn and grow.
And yes, if those people had the same qualities or problems as the people they judge they wouldn’t be so cool about it either. In fact I’ve seen people who majority of their life was fine and healthy but the moment hardship or tragedy happened they think it’s the end of the world. And they call “us” weak?!
You look okay. đ