We are all upset,and maybe the reason behind it is we are alone.despite being there for people who didnt even deserved us,we stood by their back.and then like always we end up being alone,feeling betrayed and more then that frustrated.now days its more of a pattern a person is in your life maybe a friend,boyfriend but they all seem to leave after a certain point of extent.everytimg seems exciting n fulfilling in its start but it always has a bad end.this bad ending has made todays life a living hell….we all want infact need just one person who is true.it doesnt needs to be a boyfriend or a girlfriend bt just a TRUE PERSON.so ppl lets all stand for each other ….(new here..hope u guys agree)
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For some I think this is true, but not for all. But I do think there is something that all of us needs. A person, and idea, a purpose, a pet, an emotion, something.
For myself, I agree. I think the worst part for me is the loneliness and hopelessness. Cause I know for me, when I’m at my lowest points I just want someone there with me who actually gives a damn.
But it’s so hard to find someone. I wear this mask in public, where I seem jovial and happy and funny and easy to get along with. But when I lower the mask slightly to show the real me, to test this new person and see how they react, *boom*, they are gone the next second.
The ppl who are happy(or pretebd to b happy) are the one who most hated by ppl.thy are taken for granted.hope get your person….
LOL, not sure if i’m the most hated, but I know I am taken for granted. I have a submissive personality, so I’m easily taken advantage of. I will eventually call them on it, “I know you’re using me…”, and they will deny it and act like they were doing nothing of the sort. 🙂
Thn stop it.stop allowing ppl to take u for granted.take UA own,stand,be your own saviour……
Okkie ya if npt hated bt accept it ppl are jelous tat u are happy n thy aint …..
that’s hilarious. Stop “allowing” people to take you for granted… yeah… it’s your fault because you’re “allowing them” to do whatever they’ll do regardless of your opinion.
Protip: people will do what people will do, regardless of whether you allow or permit or approve.
Totally agree with u …tat tip was totaly worth a thought
I’m not really happy, it’s all a sham, but they don’t know that. Though I’m willing to bet some of them are fake happy too. I have a feeling if everybody dropped their masks for a day, it would be one depressing world.
As to being taken advantage of…whatever…makes people think I’m “normal”, and it’s caused no harm to me yet…
Its good it has neva caused u any type of harm,bt maybe tats the reason you are alone,maybe there is someone who truly cares about you but since you hav UA mask on tat person thinks you dont need then.some day or the else you have to remove your mask n everyone has to coz tats nly whn we all will truly come to know n mayb we can also help out each …either way smetimes its good to let down your guard…
The mask is a double edged sword. That’s why I let it down gradually around people I’m getting to know. If they start withdrawing I either let them go, or pull the mask back up. It’s like i’m testing how much this person can handle and whether they want to handle it at all.
But history for me has shown, that when I let the mask down completely, those who I think are my “friends” are the first ones to leave. No one wants to be around a depressed man.
I’d guess that there’s a balance we need to find to be attractive to other people. If we appear to be too happy (as if we need no one to make us happy), people may think we’re unattainable (or something like that). If we’re all doom and gloom, they’ll avoid us like the plague. I know I’m more attracted to people who appear to need (or want) my companionship, but if a person spends all their time with me just venting about their problems, that’s a real turn off.
The balance is key. I’m not doom and gloom 24/7. But at some point I have to test the friendship, how they deal with me when I’m in a depressed mood, because it is a part of me. I have found that most people will pull away as soon as they see that. Even though I was there when they needed someone…and I’ll still be.