Now I truly am alone.

Thanks for taking the time to share your story. Sorry that your relationship ended. I don’t envy the amount of hurt you must be feeling right now, but hang on because it will be over eventually. Time heals all wounds, it really does. My last relationship ended over a year ago and it was an absolute mess of an affair that I was glad to see finish, but I still think about her most days. I used to have vivid daydreams but thankfully those are over now. Anyway, I hope you’re not hurting too bad.

I like to say that a relationship ending is a good thing because it means that you weren’t with the right person. Now that the relationship is over, you don’t have to spend time with the wrong person and can continue your search for Mr. Right. Easier said than done though, right? Try and stay as positive as possible until you’re a bit more emotionally stable.

There really are plenty of fish in the sea, and finding a supportive partner that will stick with you through thick and thin is possible, no matter how screwed up you might think you are. You just have to keep trying and not let your relationship failures make you jaded. Let your body and mind feel the misery; cry and sulk till your hearts content, but know that you’ll get over this hump and keep on keeping on down this road.

Don’t give up. Keep throwing that dart until you hit the bullseye. When you think about your ex, remind yourself that while your time with him was great, it wasn’t the relationship that’s perfect for you.