How does one *fix* the affects of abuse? You can’t fix that what is. You just learn to cope. No matter how hard one tries, the memories are still remain; forever haunting, forever there.
I have been told to dwell not on that what was but rather focus on what can be. I have always maintained that focusing (and influencing) one’s future is largely based on one’s past, as it is one’s past that makes up one’s present. It is one’s present that gives one strength and abilities to influence one’s future. We are after all the sum of all of our experiences.
One’s past = present = future.
It is a fluidic paradigm that is most incredible to change. But one must possess the strength and will for it to be so, to influence and change one’s future. What if one (me) just doesn’t give a fuck anymore?
1 comment
It leaves a deep cut man. The deeper the cut the more beautiful the scar.