Wondering starting to date again… I like one girl more then the others she is cute and sweet. She is originally from the country that I moved too 6 years ago. But also lived in the east and southern of Europe.
She is 8 years older then me. I don’t mind. I actually quite like it as I would like children and I think she would want them too. I wonder though if it is a wise step.. in the longer run for my happiness if that path were to happen….
we click really well so I do not really for see problems in that perspective, we talk really well…. Or I dunno maybe I do a lot. I am sure if I imagine this or not but I think I have insecurity issues because of all that happened and also because of my ex.
so I wonder about if that is a sign from her not liking me. And also in other ways I make myself insecure… I quite hate it…
don’t know why I have to do that and I wish I coiled just stop that somehow.. but not with smoking, I try herbs and it helps 🙂 but still sometimes the thoughts are quite bad… And I still think of my ex too… Still hold a grudge but mostly aimed at myself.
She give a lot of compliments. I like them. Got example that she says that my beard fits me. that I am intelligent; I do not think so of myself… again that insecurity, she thinks that I am wise and the age is not a problem for her, I figure why would it it’s probably only good for her.
Opinions? Any comment is welcome
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Love knows no age , if she truly loves you she will not care about the age difference , all she will care about is spending forever with you. 8 years difference does not create much difference than 2 year difference.
It seems you have not proposed her till now. If not, you can ask her whether she loves you and will she marry you in the future … Whenever you feels insecure, you should in a direct manner tell her about what you are feeling insecure and then probably she will give you reassurance which willl help you. Only she can truly help with your insecurity if you tells it about her
It’s new, I do not even want to continue if… I dunno what the if is…