It’s been a year now, i never posted though i saved many draft that i couldn’t post . I read people’s problem as way to forget mine. But things got worse, school stress, family, loneliness, anxiety, depression and life.. I used to cut myself as a coping mechanism , physical pain makes me forget the war inside me, but i think im going back to it because im really hurting,im so in pain and drowning. I spend so much time on scrolling Instagram without nobody noticing me or just checking on me. I spend time on discord watching people talking and being ignored by everyone.. […]
We’re at the store and i decided i want m&ms so i ran over to let him know. And someone held the door for me while i asked my husband to grab them for me. I feel horrible for not saying thank you. Im sure if i told you why i didnt youd understand…
I have anxiety and there were people in the store and people behind me and you so i was kind of zoned out just wanting to get out of there. Im sorry i didnt say thank you, i wanted to…
I’ve been doing a lot of thinking lately, about how I feel and how others around me feel. I’m not entirely sure what I want to do as a result of this thinking, but I know I do want things to change.
I hate referencing ‘Thirteen Reasons Why’, but I guess I have to.
I’ve decided to give the world one last chance.
Shit… and now it’s all too easy… I… I promised someone I wouldn’t. And here I am sitting alone in the dark. With all the means to finish the job. I… I know I can’t I just… I feel so lost. So uncontrollably alone. So much is happening right now and I don’t know what to do. Someone hurt me deeply and I don’t feel an ounce of anger over what that thing did. And I don’t feel sorry for it either. I don’t feel anything at all for the most part. But.. that’s all I’ve ever felt for years. Like taking another hit. And […]
It’s been a while since I was last here. I never thought I would return to post anything again, not that there’s something wrong with it, I guess I just never felt like I needed it – either that or I just kept my mind busy for long enough.
Either way, it seems like not much has changed over the past few years. I’m in a different place (physically), surrounded by different people, yet the feeling of loneliness that creeps around is the same as always. I can’t say for sure if I really ever progressed, but deep down I feel like I’m stuck on […]
It’s been a rough couple of weeks. My energy levels are low, made worse by the lack of daylight. I can’t afford to fix my bike, so I can’t go ride, one of the few things I was able to do outside the house. Wife is struggling too, not much I’ve been able to do to help.
This week I started really applying to jobs that I am way overqualified for. 15 years into a career, you’d think experience would count for something. Anyway, returning to the well of things I’ve already done, applied to work on a psych ward as a tech. I did it […]
It’s looking like i have TGA (transient global amnesia) or at the very least something closely related. Just fucking grand, thank you bpd, you just had to have urges to hit my head off of shit.
My username is holding true. I wonder what bullshit ill have to pile on top next
I finally cut off a person, a “friend” that’s selfish, racist, toxic, egocentric and irrational. she has been switching between being a normal, supportive friend to treating me like shit for years. I’m doing the best, most respectful thing I can do. If she doesn’t leave me alone from here on, I’ll smash down her Carnegie hall performance worthy hands. I would say worse, way worse, but I am not gonna make a bunch of people on the internet think I’m crazy. I won’t do shit. But I am not going to be blaming myself for these thoughts again.
That’s an exaggeration, I don’t know, I’m […]
I don’t know what I plan to do in life. All I know is that I’m going to leave home soon, possibly as soon as I turn 18. And go somewhere far away, I wanna see how far I can get before I die.
People want credit just for showing up. They want credit for being sympathetic and what they determine is helpful. They want to be showered with praise and award for taking two lazy seconds out of their day to give half-assed advice about something they do not understand, with someone they have not spoken to for more than two seconds.
Never question the abuse of the well-intentioned.
And once they have privileged you with their attention, you cannot speak up about how they were actually hurtful. They recommended that I see a therapist, because they sympathetically recognized I was hurting (as though I’m a witless child who cannot […]
Hey everyone, it’s been a while. I’m not sure how many of you remember me, but I was often active here earlier this year. Anyway, I thought that you people deserve an update on my life lol.
I’m doing better now. A lot better. Not great, but definitely alright. I don’t really know how or when I started feeling better, but for some reason my depression became a lot more mild. When I was at my worst, this place helped me a lot. It was nice to feel understood, and you guys were genuinely helpful and sincere. Thankyou for that. There were a few times where I […]
“suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem”
1) who the fuck are you to tell me my problems are temporary!? I’ll have you know they’re permanent and something I’ll have to deal with my entire life even if i get it straightened out.
2) “your fixes are a temporary fix to my permanent problem” if i go off my meds/stop therapy, if I’m not constantly working on myself, I’m right back where i started. Sounds pretty fucking temporary.
I think these people have their saying backwards and the sad part is, they’ll refuse to understand and just continue to argue about it…. Humans *eye roll*. If […]
To stay or to go far away and start over? Do i deserve the do-over? I think sometimes i do but then other times i really feel like i dont. But whatever it is i need to figure it out before its too late. I have to atleast try and make an effort. But maybe being sent away wont be so bad this time.
I’m lost. I’m completely lost, I thought I was making a life for myself but it turns out I’ve just been sweeping everything under the rug. All I’ve ever done is help other people and make sure that they were doing okay despite the fact that I’m suffering.
I don’t know how to help myself, I’m scared that I’ll just suffer more consequences for trying. I made a big step today but I’m not sure if it was a good choice. I feel completely numb and apart from the world yet again, I hate this feeling I want it to go away. Maybe I’ll get professional […]
I’m back here again, somehow.
It’s odd looking back at my ramblings, the feelings I had when I joined all those years ago, and yet despite all the changes, I’m back here again.
I wonder how the people I’d met on here are doing?
Hopefully, they found their way, like I’m trying to.
I know what this place is, why people are here, and yet, I’m back here again.
Not sure what this means, honestly. I guess I just want some of the lost souls that pass through here to find their way out. To make it out okay. My headspace […]
after looking at what was in front of me last night i decided to message my friends, shits clearly wrong.
anyway that was just added to go into this next part, which i honestly doubt ill get any legit help with 1) lack of people to reply and 2) my bpd so no offense but if you understand the disorder, youll understand why i say help is probably useless so its more of just a vent i guess.
hes special to me. and i dont feel connected to him at all. consider it a LDR. i dont want to be more involved with his life. from […]
desperate longing to feel some sort of connection with another human being + complete inability to reveal self to others or be accepted = yet another pointless sp post
probably repeat this in a few days, when the urge to wrestle with this insoluble problem next strikes
at least I can pretend to myself I’m doing something, even if it’s pointless
Update: I’m okay.
Physically, anyways.
Thanks to everyone who showed support.. but honestly please don’t waste your time on me. That’s all.
I find it extremely bizarre that this world is founded on a farce. We all worship the almighty dollar, and yet it isn’t even real. Money only has value because we are told it does. And yet, if we have an abundance of money, life becomes easier. When we are wealthy, we have more options. When we are poor, we constantly worry about money and how we’re going to get it. For the majority of people, it means going to a lousy and demeaning minimum wage job every day of every year until we retire. That is, plain and simply, living to work. Who wants […]
Sometimes, I just get so frustrated and mad, then at first it feels like I’m stuck, can’t move. Then my hands start shaking, arms, I clench and unclench random muscles… I can push more, but stopping it isn’t something I can do.
I tried, that was a mistake. That sums it up. I applied to more jobs, because even some money would be better than being absolutely destitute. I “heard back” from two. One asked me to keep working on my application last night. Then, before I woke up today, they sent me an email that they weren’t interested. What the ever loving fuck? I know […]